Validate your feeling

 Have you ever experienced this;

'I should not feel like this! It'll make other people hate you, think you are childish'

Have you? Because I am. Sometime I do feel like that and just recently. But my wise friend said to me, 'whatever you feel, you should validate it because it is what you truly feel deep inside your heart' (something like that, not literally that phrase). Her words make me stop for a while. And yes! it is true! Why I must find a reason to not admit what I feel. Maybe the consequences from my feeling will make me look like a fool to everyone but who care? No one! At the end we have only ourselves to fix the wound. 

Just my some random thought but not really random.